Emotional First Aid is Powerful
"Minutes of skillful support by any sensitive person immediately after the trauma can be worth more than hours of professional counseling later."
— Bard and Sanger, The Crime Victim's Book
Emotional First Aid Is Powerful
Emotional First Aid may look simple, but its impact can be profound. In the moments following a traumatic event, survivors are often overwhelmed, frightened, and unsure of what comes next. During these early hours, how people are treated—and how supported they feel—can shape their experience long after the crisis has passed.
Emotional First Aid reminds us that human presence matters.
Why Early Support Makes a Difference
After tragedy, survivors may feel disconnected from themselves, others, and the world around them. Even small acts of compassion can help restore a sense of safety and grounding.
Emotional First Aid is powerful because it:
Reduces feelings of isolation
Helps survivors feel seen and heard
Prevents additional emotional harm
Creates space for healthy coping to begin
Support offered in the early moments does not remove pain—but it can prevent survivors from feeling alone in it.
Presence Over Perfection
One of the most important aspects of Emotional First Aid is understanding that you do not need the right words. Survivors often remember how someone made them feel far more than what was said.
A calm, respectful presence can be more healing than advice, explanations, or attempts to “fix” the situation.
Simple actions—listening, sitting quietly, acknowledging pain—can have lasting impact.
Small Moments, Lasting Effects
Survivors may not remember every detail of the Horrible Hours, but they often remember:
Who stayed with them
Who listened without judgment
Who treated them with dignity
Who helped them feel less alone
These moments matter. Emotional First Aid works not because it is complex, but because it honors the human need for connection during crisis.
For Helpers
If you are offering support after tragedy, remember:
You are not expected to solve anything
Your presence is enough
Compassion is more important than expertise
Emotional First Aid allows helpers to show up with humility and care—without pressure to have answers.
Helper: Heal Yourself
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Printable Guide: Why Emotional First Aid Matters
For a concise, printable overview of how Emotional First Aid supports survivors during the early hours after tragedy, download the guide below.
Emotional First Aid Is Powerful
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